Honestly, what she's doing is very disrespectful to you and is a characteristic of emotional abuse - never being available when she says she will be, making you fit to her schedule, cancelling plans at the last minute, etc. While I did read the comments about depression and think she may be depressed, that doesn't make her actions any more right. Although I don’t cancel plans on the last minute to give her a dose of her own medicine, I started NOT making plans with her unless it’s a group thing. In that way, even if she cancels on the last minute, I can still do as planned, without her. She’s frustrated that “I seem to be very busy lately”, but my response is : Yes, I am. qu55O.

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